Cliché title. I know, but there IS a bit of sense in it.
I’ve been busy with work lately yet I find myself occasionally distracted by things around me. One event was the major work layoff of a lot of friends. Wrote something briefly about it:
I couldn’t think.
There as a deep penetrating pain between my eyebrows. I must’ve have been reading too much. After all, I did just chat with a dozen different people from the south. It’s all fuzzy right now though.
I vaguely remember reading from the computer monitor…”It was a surprise… We had no notice… We had to sign to get the checks.” They were reaching out to me - to us here.
Apparently, there was crying.
Outside the office, I saw the rain suddenly pour.
I write things like these to release some stress. Hey, there’s nothing I could do but empathize and write something about it. Really, I find that writing about things like these help.
I chatted with my friends using Yahoo Messenger and tried to console them as best I could. I also told them to look at it from another perspective. This could just be the opportunity they need - perhaps to get out of the office, to live life a little, to be free. Maybe they could even start their own company. What the heck! With the skills they have, they could really make it. All it needs is a bit of courage and a paradigm shift.
The world could go upside down but it won’t matter. What matters is how people see the world.
You see, we tend to react to what’s around us. What happens to us. We become sad, angry, afraid or confused. Instead of allowing that to happen, take action. Listen to music. In my case, I write it down. I let the emotions out. I release it to the world.
Then live on. Be free. Smile and look at the brighter side of it.
My friends DID get a form of separation pay. It was not too shabby. With some of the money they’ve received, they could start their own business! Or they could just find new work and use the money for something else. Consider it an early Christmas bonus or something.
It all starts with them mind. Just move to a more thankful form of thinking. Have a gratitude attitude and then believe that things work out. Have faith.
June 20th, 2008 at 4:29 pm
aaawww… that’s just too sad
hope the company has a valid reason for the layoff .. X(
June 20th, 2008 at 4:47 pm
That part of our life may have closed already but there are tons of others opening. Some of us here may still be in shock right now because we never really did get to properly say goodbye to friends though. That’s the hardest part. At least for me.
Thanks so much Ely.
June 20th, 2008 at 8:48 pm
Everyone always has a way of looking at things. And most of the time how you look at the situation will determine how well you are going to respond to it.
So yes, seeing brighter perspective of an otherwise gloomy situation is quite effective in manuevering your psyche into bouncing back to the road to success…
nuninu…
June 27th, 2008 at 5:13 am
[...] There are two basic things I told my friends who lost work recently: [...]
July 2nd, 2008 at 7:44 pm
lucky are the people who are able to turn their tragedy into an opportunity for new beginnings
July 2nd, 2008 at 8:14 pm
It takes great courage, self-discipline, unfaltering faith and some practice to be able to see unfortunate events as new paths for a better life…it’s not an easy task to see things positively but it’s worth trying and doing..ely, i love reading your blogs..you have so much optimism in you, i hope to have that kind of attitude too..
July 2nd, 2008 at 8:18 pm
hi ulit!i just want to share something i read from an email:”GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE YOU EMPTY.HE WILL REPLACE EVERYTHING YOU’VE LOST.IF HE ASKS YOU TO PUT SOMETHING DOWN, IT’S BECAUSE HE WANTS YOU TO PICK-UP SOMETHING GREATER”
July 3rd, 2008 at 9:34 am
Thanks for all your comments!